We spend about one-third of our lives in bed. For some, it’s just a place to sleep. But if you’re anything like us, your bed is your haven. It’s where you retreat after a long day, recharge over the weekend, and sometimes catch up on your favourite shows.
So if you're going to spend that much time in bed, it might as well be the comfiest spot in your home.
Step 1. Start with a Quality Mattress
When it comes to a mattress, there are a few factors which are worth considering.
Why Is A Mattress So Important?
A mattress is the foundation of a comfortable bed. They aren't one size fits all. What works for someone else might not work for you, so it's worth considering your sleep style.
If you’re a side sleeper, you might prefer a softer mattress to relieve pressure on your hips and shoulders. Back sleepers tend to do better with a medium-firm mattress that supports spinal alignment. Stomach sleepers might find comfort in something firmer to prevent their spine from sinking too much. If replacing your mattress isn’t in the cards right now, consider a mattress topper. A high-quality topper can improve comfort, adjust firmness, and even help with temperature regulation. Look for memory foam or down alternative styles for added softness.
When it comes to our pick, we always choose down. Admittedly, it can be a little more expensive, but we love down for its outstanding durability, excellent warmth and its versatility across every season. More details on our recommendations for each of these fill types can be found later on in this guide.
Step 2. Invest in Soft, Breathable Sheets
Breathable sheets are important for a comfortable and healthy sleep environment.
| Fabric | Why You'll Love It |
|---|---|
Cotton |
Crisp, cool, and breathable for a fresh night’s sleep. Ideal for staying cool and comfortable all night. |
Linen |
Soft, airy, and perfect for those who tend to sleep hot or need extra ventilation |
Bamboo |
Soft, moisture-wicking, and eco-friendly. Great for hot sleepers and those with sensitive skin. |
Satin |
Silky, smooth and breathable. Great for hot sleepers and anyone who loves an airy night’s sleep. |
Thread count matters, but more isn’t always better. Somewhere between 200 and 600 is usually ideal. Focus on fabric quality and weave for a true upgrade in feel.
Pro tip: Swap your sheets with the seasons. Linen is great in summer, while sateen or flannel adds warmth in cooler months. Cotton is the winner for all year round use.
Step 3. Layer Your Bedding Strategically
Comfort is as much about how your bed looks as how it feels. Layering your bedding creates that plush, inviting feel you’d expect from a hotel.
How Can Layer My Bed?
Start with your fitted sheet and flat sheet, then add a lightweight blanket or quilt.
On top of that, a fluffy duvet provides insulation and structure. You can finish the look, and add a little warmth, with a folded throw or textured blanket across the end of the bed.
Having layers allows you to adjust throughout the night if you get too warm or cool, without needing to fully remake the bed.
Step 4. Use High-Quality Pillows
Your pillow should support your head and neck in a neutral position, and that changes depending on how you sleep.
How Do I Know What Pillow Is Right For Me?
Your pillow should support your head and neck in a neutral position, and that changes depending on how you sleep. Side sleepers tend to need a firmer, thicker pillow to fill the gap between their shoulder and head.
Back sleepers are usually best suited to a medium loft pillow that cradles the neck without pushing the head too far forward. Stomach sleepers often need a softer, flatter pillow to keep the spine aligned.A cloud-like pillow setup doesn’t hurt either.
Try stacking your sleeping pillows behind a pair of European pillows for back support while reading or relaxing. Add one or two decorative cushions for extra comfort and a finished look.
Step 5. Daily Maintenance
"If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed." – William H. McRaven (that Navy seal guy)
Starting your day with a small, simple task can have a big impact. Making your bed might seem like a small act, but it sets the tone for the entire day. It gives you that instant sense of accomplishment and creates a peaceful, organised space to start from. A comfortable bed is also a well-maintained one. Taking a few minutes each morning to make your bed, fluff your pillows, shake out your doona or quilt, and smooth down your sheets It also helps prevent clumping and uneven wear, keeping everything feeling fresher for longer. Treat your bed right, and it’ll return the favour.
Step 6. Enhance the Ambience Around the Bed
Comfort doesn’t stop at the edge of the bed. The surrounding space plays a big role in how relaxing your sleep environment feels. Starting with soft lighting, bedside lamps or warm LED strips work well to create a gentle wind-down mood. Add in a subtle scent like lavender or eucalyptus, either through an essential oil diffuser or a candle, and make sure the textures around your bed invite relaxation. A soft rug underfoot, block-out curtains, and quiet background noise (or silence) can help turn your bedroom into a calm and restful retreat. It’s not just about aesthetics, either. Creating a peaceful atmosphere makes it easier to fall asleep and stay asleep.
Step 7. Wash And Rotate Reguarly
Even the best bedding loses its comfort if it’s not well cared for. Aim to wash your sheets every 1-2 weeks and your doona cover at least once a month. If you use a mattress topper, air it out regularly and wash it every few months, depending on the care label. Rotate your pillows and give them a good fluff to prevent them from becoming flat or uneven.
And yes. This still applies in winter. Fresh sheets feel warmer, cleaner, and more inviting, especially when paired with a doona that suits the season
Your bed should be more than just a place to sleep, it should be your favourite spot in the house. With the right care, creating a comfy, hotel-level bed at home is totally doable.
Start with one or two upgrades and build from there. Whether it’s a new set of breathable sheets or fluffing your pillows each morning, small changes go a long way.
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